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QUESTIONING ANGER AND JUSTICE

THE QUESTION

What am I calling justice while I am angry?

Anger can bring a strong sense that something should happen next. A wrong should be acknowledged. A consequence should follow. Something should be repaired, restored, prevented, or changed. Questioning Anger and Justice asks what I mean by justice, what outcome I believe belongs, and what I am asking that outcome to accomplish.

A QUESTION TO HOLD

What am I asking justice to do?

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What would justice look like to me here?

  • Acknowledgment?
  • Apology?
  • Accountability?
  • Consequence?
  • Repair?
  • Restitution?
  • Protection?
  • Prevention?
  • Change?
  • Something else?

What would have to happen for me to say justice had been done?

What do I mean by fair here?

Fair to whom?

  • Me?
  • Another Human?
  • Everyone affected?
  • The person who acted?
  • The System?
  • Future Humans?

TENSION

Whose interests does my idea of justice include?

WHAT ARE YOU NOTICING?

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What consequence do I believe belongs here?

What am I hoping that consequence will do?

  • Protect?
  • Repair?
  • Prevent?
  • Acknowledge?
  • Teach?
  • Deter?
  • Punish?
  • Restore?

What would accountability actually require here?

  • Admission or explanation?
  • Taking responsibility?
  • Changing behavior?
  • Repairing something?
  • Accepting a consequence?
  • Being answerable to another Human or a System?

Would I want the same outcome if I were no longer angry?

What am I asking justice to restore?

  • Safety?
  • Dignity?
  • Trust?
  • Control?
  • Equality?
  • A relationship?
  • Something lost?
  • A sense of fairness?

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What happens when no outcome can make what happened unhappen?

  • Recognition?
  • Repair?
  • Prevention?
  • Accountability?
  • Change?
  • Completion?
  • Something else?

LOOK AGAIN

Does my sense of justice require me to remain angry?

SELF

What am I asking justice to restore for me?

SYSTEMS

What responsibility, if any, belongs to the System in deciding or addressing what is fair?

SOCIETY

What do I believe a just Society should do with situations like this?

  • What am I calling justice?
  • What am I asking justice to do?
  • If the anger changes, what still needs to be addressed?

What does this reveal about Being Human?

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